Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Migrant Workers - Part 4

Back to the compare-and-contrast exercise of "Migrant Workers" in Singapore vs Canada. If you have not read my previous blog entries on this series, you can find them here (part 1, part 2 and part 3).

Read here, an article by Yawning Bread that shows what happens in Singapore when one dares to question the Ministry of Manpower (a government agency) on what seems to be an anomaly in their staff's actions.

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Let us look at how the Superior Court of Quebec, Canada, handled a case which challenges the Quebec Human Rights and Youth Rights Commission's dismissal of a complaint filed by PINAY (the "Organisation des Femmes Philippins du Quebec" or "Filipino Women’s Organization in Quebec") on behalf of 26 Filipina LICs (Live-In Caregivers). For more details on the case, please click here and here for the Press Releases from PINAY and here for a report from CRARR (Center for Research-Action on Race Relations).

Below is a brief of what happened, as extracted from the above PINAY Press Releases and CRARR report.

1. Over a 5 year period, at least 40 Filipina women paid an average of US$4,000 to John Aurora’s agency (Super Nanny) to obtain work permits and immigration papers to work as Live-in Caregivers (LIC) in Montreal, Canada. In addition to the fees paid to Aurora’s agency, these women had to pay their own airfare.

2. Between between 2004 and 2008, 16 were told upon arrival that their initial employer designated in the Quebec Employment Contract was no longer available, and they were never reimbursed.
[Note: For the Live-in Caregivers visa, the TFW (temporary foreign worker) must live-in at the premises of the specified employer designated in their employment contract and work permit. If they need to change employers for any reason, they must re-apply and wait for a new work permit to be issued for the new employer, which typically takes at least 4-6 months. LICs are strictly prohibited from working until their new work permit is issued. Click here and here for more about LIC visa.]
3. Many of the TFWs were required (i.e. made) to do unpaid labour for Aurora while awaiting the confirmation of a new LIC job offer and the issuance of a new work permit.

4. These TFWs were also pressurized to sign a lease to become tenants in Aurora's various properties, where many women would live in overcrowded and unsanitary conditions. Almost all tenants had to pay an illegal deposit of $150 for furniture, late fees and other penalties that are clearly forbidden by Quebec housing laws. They were also not given a copy of their tenancy agreement. They only realized that Aurora had secretly added clauses holding them jointly liable for the rent, without their knowledge, when they were brought to the Rental Board for breaking the lease or for rent owed. 

5. In May 2009, on behalf of 26 LICs, PINAY filed a civil rights complaint against Aurora and Super Nanny, his agency, with the Quebec Human Rights and Youth Rights Commission, claiming discrimination based on race, gender, ethnic or national origin, and social condition.

6. The Commission responded in June 2009 by contacting PINAY by telephone, for a follow-up. In August 2009, the Commission began its investigation into the case.

7. In October 2009, PINAY informed the Commission of the death of John Aurora. In early November 2009, the Commission wrote to John Aurora, summoning him to its office for investigation and requesting him to bring all pertinent papers.

8. In February 2010, the Commission met with 12 of the 26 women to obtain their declarations. However, it did not inform them of the damages they could claim and the possibility of citing John Aurora’s associates as co-respondents in the case.

9. In October 2010, the Commission interviewed John Aurora’s daughter and then notified PINAY of its intent to close the file due to John Aurora’s death, because of his daughter’s denial of involvement and the fact that Super Nanny was not an incorporated business. 

10. At this point, PINAY mandated CRARR to handle the case "due to what many see as a badly handled investigation" by the Quebec Human Rights Commission -- quote from CRARR. CRARR found that the Commission failed to:
  • Explain to many of the 26 victims whom it interviewed, the remedies available to them, such as material, moral and punitive damages;
  • Take into account the names of at least John Aurora’s four staff members who actively carried out many acts of discrimination, harassment and exploitation, who could have been held jointly responsible;
  • Heed the fact that John Aurora’s daughter, in testimonies for rental board ligitation launched by her father against some caregivers over rent allegedly owed to him, did confirm her active and conscious participation in the management of her father's affairs and properties;
  • Examine evidence that John Aurora’s daughter and family relatives acted as appellants in two appeals filed in March 2010 seeking to reverse rental board decisions, that were rendered in February 2009 in favor of caregivers and against her father;
  • Properly identify PINAY as a complainant and send to PINAY the Commission's decision to investigate the case on the Commission's own initiative;
  • Take into account PINAY President's report in mid-October 2010 of pressures from John Aurora's daughter and another staff member on some caregivers to withdraw their civil rights complaints, which is in and by itself a violation of Quebec human rights law.
11. In March 2011, CRARR presented an amended version of the May 2009 civil rights complaint to the Quebec Human Rights Commission, in which it cites Aurora’s associates as co-respondents and specifies the damages to be claimed.

12. In April 2011, the Quebec Human Rights Commission (through the same investigator -- who was accused of handling the case badly in the first place) reiterating its recommendation to close the file based on the same grounds: 
  • the alleged facts of discrimination took place three years after the prescription for civil action (starting from the date of the amended complaint that cites additional respondents); 
  • John Aurora’s death; 
  • the fact that Super Nanny is not incorporated and that employees are not held responsible for the actions of their employer or personally responsible; and 
  • that John Aurora’s daughter cannot be held liable (based on the Commission's own interpretation of the "proof of her active involvement in the management of her father’s affairs").
13. PINAY applied for judicial review to reverse the Commission’s dismissal of the complaint. In addition, PINAY asked for a total of $90,000 in moral damages against the Commission for gross negligence.

14. On October 16, 2012, the Superior Court of Quebec ruled in favour of 8 LICs and PINAY for a judicial review of the Quebec Human Rights and Youth Rights Commission’s negative decision about their case.

15. The judge rejected the Quebec Human Rights Commission's core arguments for dismissing judicial review, namely:
  • The application for judicial review was filed more than 5 months after the decision was taken; 
  • The Commission has fulfilled its duty of procedural fairness during the investigation; 
  • The Commission enjoyed large discretion in its investigation and that the women could still sue the respondents in regular courts at their own expense.
16. The Superior Court and its judge:
  • recognized that the circumstances in this particular case justify the delay of two months in filing the motion. 
  • emphasized the serious prejudice that the Filipina women would suffer if their motion for Judicial Review was dismissed. 
  • highlighted the importance of the present case and its potential for justice to present and future LICs. In fact, in the judge’s words, “the importance of the matter is further magnified by the fact that over and above the Plaintiffs, there are many Filipino caregivers arriving in Canada every day”.
  • recognized that “plaintiffs’ rights could be seriously prejudiced if their motion is dismissed at this stage. While it is true that they could institute proceedings on their own, and might ultimately have to do so, such proceedings would be costly and there is potential for prescription.
17. Ms. Evelyn Calugay, President of Pinay highlighted the social impact of the Superior Court's ruling, “The Court is sending a very important message to society as whole about the obstacles encountered by migrant and domestic workers in seeking protection against civil rights violations, something which the human rights commission seems to have problems understanding.”

18. The case is still on-going, pending a full hearing by the judiciary allow the Court to adjudicate on the validity of Plaintiff's [PINAY and the LICs] claims. The case is expected to cost the group several thousand dollars.

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In the case highlighted by Yawning Bread, the Singapore Ministry of Manpower (MOM) 
  • did not assist the migrant worker in retrieving/extracting compensation from the "derelict employer" which its own Labour Court awarded, and its officers know that the employer had failed to pay.
  • "requested" that blogger Yawning Bread, censor his blog post which draw media attention to the case (and thus, MOM's own failings).
[This paragraph is added on 01-Feb-2013.] As for unions, as Yawning Bread highlighted, the SMRT strike clearly indicated a lack of independent unions in Singapore. According to MrBrown, the NTUC (National Trades Union Congress) director of the Unit for Contract and Casual Workers (UCCW) criticized the striking migrant workers for acting without the knowledge of the NTWU (National Transport Workers' Union). In turn, the NTWU issued a press statement saying that it does not have the legal mandate to represent the PRC bus workers of SMRT as they are not union members. So which is the actual union responsible? The NTUC/UCCW or the NTWU? What does the National in NTUC and NTWU stand for? Only people of Singaporean nationality? In contrast, unionized workers in B.C. Canada are always advised, "Do not cross a picket line, even if it is not your union on strike. Call your union representative for advice." because independent unions support each other in solidarity against unfair and/or unjust employment practice. In addition, for unionized jobs, all workers are paid an equitable rate based on union negotiation with the employers. Lastly, from my personal experience, the union will fight for you even if you're not their full-fledged member yet, because allowing discriminatory practices against one segment of the workers may lead eventually to undercutting and/or undermining the compensation/benefits of ALL workers.

IMHO, labour protection and civil rights movements are comparatively weak in Singapore. Firstly, there isn't a Human Rights Commission (or ombudsman) in Singapore. As far as I know, there isn't any civil rights organization in Singapore with enough funding to conduct its independent investigations (like CRARR) and to bank-roll an application for judiciary review (like PINAY). Thus, as far as I know, there isn't any court cases upon which to compare the performance of the Singapore judiciary vs that of the Quebecois (Canadian) judiciary. At least in Quebec, Canada, the Superior Court sent "a very important message to society as whole about the obstacles encountered by migrant and domestic workers in seeking protection against civil rights violations". In contrast, when I read of how even the Acting Manpower Minister Tan Chuan-Jin seemed to be oblivious the challenges faced by migrant workers in obtaining justice and fair treatment, I doubt there would be any significant improvement to the Singapore system anytime soon.

[p.s. Anyone out there who knows of such migrant workers-related court cases in Singapore (i.e. not the criminal cases prosecuted by the Singapore Attorney General's Chamber whereby compensation to the migrant workers is not on-the-plate), please drop a note in the comments section. Thanks!]

A foreign workers' dormitory in Singapore

Products of society

A Canadian friend wrote on his Facebook wall,
Suddenly remembering what my Sociology Prof said years ago on our 1st day: "You are all products of your society..."
I commented,
Fortunately or unfortunately, I failed the "product quality assurance checks" by my society (Singapore), and thus landed up in Canada. :-P
My Canadian friend FB "Like" my comment.

p.s. I don't think I want to be a "quality" product of the "uniquely Singapore" society. Click here, here and here to see why.

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[Addendum on 01-Feb-2013]

Another friend (Iranian-origin, now residing in B.C., Canada) of my Canadian friend commented,
On the contrary, I think it is our society that is our product
My Canadian friend FB "Like" his comment.

IMHO, it is true too. The individuals/people form the society and also voted for the politicians who make the laws, which in turn creates societal norms which mould people's attitudes. That said, the implication of what it says about the typical Singaporean is pretty sad.

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Hammer shifts the ground

Ground-shattering news! Worker's Party (WP) hammered People's Action Party (PAP). It won by a clear margin in a 4-way By-Election fight. This is despite the lighting announcement of various goodies by PAP just before the By-Election date.

IMHO, this is good news! Not so much because WP won, but because it means that the voters in Punggol East (and by extension Singapore) have learned to vote strategically. I suspect that under "normal" circumstances, the anti-PAP vote would probably be split between the 3 alternative parties. [Thank goodness, SDP pulled out after its attempt at wayang. See my online discussion with CK in the comments section of this blog post.] In fact, over lunch on Friday with some (ex-)Singaporeans in B.C., Canada, several were betting that PAP would win as a result of the 4-way fight. The fact that WP won by a clear margin means that the voters at Punggol East (and by extension Singapore) has developed/matured -- to look beyond short term "carrots" announced and to align their votes to their most important priority (i.e. send in more opposition MPs by voting for the most likely alternative candidate to win).

Perhaps, just perhaps, there is hope for Singapore yet? I am so looking forward to the General Election 2016. In the meantime, I think PAP will be forced to declare another round of "slaughtering sacred cows" and/or "National CONversation".

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On other news, The Online Citizen (TOC) trumps TODAYonline on timeliness of reporting "Punggol East by-election Polling Day as it unfolds" despite TOC being "crippled" to just a Facebook wall. TODAYonline's descriptive updates seem to hang after 10:25pm (Singapore time), with only the title changed to "Lee Li Lian wins Punggol East by-election". Why ah? Waiting for the editors to approve the "spin", is it?

[Sourced at 11:15pm Singapore time from

[Sourced at 11:24pm Singapore time from

p.s. Finally, I saw a descriptive update on TODAYonline at 11:42pm (Singapore time) or 7:42am (B.C., Canada time). 2 paragraphs at the top-of-page about WP candidate winning. The TODAYonline URL was changed from the
previous: http://www.todayonline.com/singapore/punggol-east-election-polling-day-it-unfolds
to the updated: http://www.todayonline.com/singapore/lee-li-lian-wins-punggol-east-election
"SINGAPORE - Workers' Party candidate Lee Li Lian has won the Punggol East by-election, taking 54.5 per cent of the valid votes cast, over PAP candidate Koh Poh Koon's 43.7 per cent. 
Returning Officer Yam Ah Mee announced that of 29,415 valid votes cast, Ms Lee had taken a total of 16,038 votes, over Dr Koh's 12,856 votes. SDA candidate Desmond Lim, with 168 votes, and RP chief Kenneth Jeyaretnam, with 353 votes, both forfeited their election deposit." -- quoted from TODAYonline.
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Lastly, is it my eyes or did the red lighting in the PAP's logo grow fatter over the decades? Let me see if I can find my 1970's PAP (Community Foundation) kindergarten report book.

[Update on 30-Jan-2013: Oops, I do not have my kindergarten report book with me. Maybe it's still with my parents or (more likely) maybe it has gone into the trash bin long ago.]

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Facebook exchange: Homophobic hate speech

Homophobia is well and alive in Singapore. Just these few days, I had another Facebook sparring with my right-wing Christian friend, LKM (again). LKM is from Westside Anglican Church.
[Aside: Normally I would hold the individual to account for his/her actions, and not name his/her religious association. However, in this case, I understand that LKM's homophobic views are reinforced by his church's teachings, and thus I would argue that the church is vicariously liable. For more background about homophobia in Singapore Anglican churches, read this article on "Asian Anglicans starts a crusade against the West and gays" by Rainbow Harvest.]
Perhaps the Workers Party is playing it smart by holding its stance on the homophobic Section 377A of the Penal Code (Singapore) close to their hearts. 377A affects political votes as there is a significant vocal and growing segment of right-wing Christians in Singapore. IMHO, this group is brainwashed with homophobic rhetoric that they cannot hold up to when challenged, but instead often hide behind the excuse that "it is not socially nice" to criticize others' views (see below for example).

At the moment, for the Punggol East By-Election, these right-wing Christian folks are campaigning for PAP so as to retain 377A. Based on my friend's Facebook postings, the reason for supporting PAP is because of Christopher de Souza's speech against the repeal of 377A back in October 2007. I think it is naive of these right-wing Christians to believe that PAP's current stance to retain 377A will remain forever. After all, PAP being the "pragmatic" political party of "hard rules" of life, had previously sold out the Christian lobby on the casino issue when it suited its political leaders' wish to grow the GDP.

Normally, I ignore LKM's rants when he gets all worked up about his Christian objectives. However, I stepped in when I saw that his rants degraded into homophobic hate speech.

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[Our Facebook Exchange, edited to remove the real names of the individuals involved. The number of Facebook "Likes" are shown here when there is 1 or more likes.]

LKM: If homosexual intercourse is legally permissible, I fear for our Army !!!!
Like - 3 

LKM:  Snglish phrases like "kanna screw" takes on new meanings ...

AKCY: That would only be worrying if homosexual *rape* was permissible.
Like - 2

WD:  Heterosexual intercourse is legally permissible and there are women in the Army, so are there lots of "ungodly" action taking place in the army?
Don't jump the gun lah.

LKM:  Yah the SGT rape already then claim to be lover, how to bring to court since legalized ?

WD:  *Rape* is rape. Man rape man case should be brought to court the same way as man rape woman case. Why the gender discrimination?
Like · 1

LKM:  We're not even talking about godly or ungodly, a man poking another's backside is downright repulsive, we talking about endorsing SICKNESS by removing 377A ...

WD:  Also, may I add, woman rape man case should be brought to court the same way as man rape woman case or man rape man case.
Like · 1

LKM:  Imagine an army where soldier fight fellow soldier over a male lover .... *puke* Such an army really in for big trouble ...

WD:  > "man poking another's backside is downright repulsive, we talking about endorsing SICKNESS"
Quoting you, LKM, above. Is that a FACT or just your own narrow-minded OPINION?

LKM:  Google homosexual intercourse and advise me how else it's technically possible ...

LKM:  ... maybe there are other possible permutations but they all fall under pornographic domains ...

LKM:  ... now bring these into perspective of why anyone would want it legalized ...

KKP: "Disapproval of homosexuality cannot justify invading the houses, hearts and minds of citizens who choose to live their lives differently." -Harry A. Blackmun
"I'm a supporter of gay rights. And not a closet supporter either. From the time I was a kid, I have never been able to understand attacks upon the gay community. There are so many qualities that make up a human being... by the time I get through with all the things that I really admire about people, what they do with their private parts is probably so low on the list that it is irrelevant." -Paul Newman
Like - 4
WD:  So you find "man poking another's backside is downright repulsive" because you're heterosexual. You can always decline if a homosexual guy asks you for sex.
My point about distinguishing between FACT and OPINION is your judgement that the act itself is "downright repulsive" -- that's your opinion, not a fact.

LKM:  Agree about it being a fact that I find it repulsive. Just wondering who are those capable of accepting such a repulsive act *yucks*

LKM:  As far as I learn from Biology, backside is meant for shitting, that's a fact !
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AL: Hi LKM, it sounds like you are grossed out by the act of anal sex, and that's not your only objection. Would that be right?

LKM:  And farting sometimes too ...

LKM:  I can accept the emotional aspects of 2 person having deep feelings, but the sex part which is what 377A is about should be maintained to upkeep the proper order of nature, man and woman ...
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LKM:   ... and we're not talking about religion here yet ...

WD:  > Agree about it being a fact that I find it repulsive. Just wondering who are those capable of accepting such a repulsive act *yucks*
Some of my friends are. As far as I am concerned, there are many more qualities (and admirable ones too) about my homosexual friends that what they do with their private parts in the privacy of their bedrooms is none of my concern. 
E.g. Some of them have to deal daily with people like you (LKM) who judge them based on your own value system of "proper order of nature, man and woman" when your bible told you that judgement is only to be done by your god. Tsk, tsk, hope you're not trying to play god.
LKM:  Nope, my opinion purely mine. Happy that Singapore still have a governance with soundness that will hold on to Penal Code 377A so that I don't have to worry over my daughters and sons ....
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LKM:  ... of course everyone is entitled to the freedom of their own private activities, but Penal Code 377A is about setting a baseline for a society, what constitutes acceptable norm, what constitutes not acceptable criminal activity ...

LKM:  ... and to me, the fact is that legalizing homosexual sex goes against the sound establishment of our Asian society ...

WD:  > baseline for a society, what constitutes acceptable norm, what constitutes not acceptable criminal activity
And that is why the baseline is being challenged (and I am happy to say that). You have a right to your OPINIONS and VALUE SYSTEM, just not the right to expect others to conform to your opinions or value system. 
> sound establishment of our Asian society ... 
You obviously are clueless on the sexual history of Asian societies. Even in karma sutra, there are extracts talking about homosexual acts.
Like · 1
KKP: How would you like it if someone started 'Shut Up LKM & Concentrate on your inane diet diary' Campaign? Maybe you would know how it feels to be ranted on...

LKM:  You sure got me there with the karma sutra bullshit haha ... but I still Kee Chiu in support for keeping Penal Code 377A !!

KKP: B

LKM:  It's seasonal lah ... I mean my rantings ... I change topic very readily ... but as far as this season is concern, I want to voice my UTMOST support for Penal Code 377A. Keep 377A for Singapore ...
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WD:  @ LKM: I suggest you find yourself a good translation of the actual historic "Karma Sutra", not those cheap "1001 sex positions" knock-off of Karma Sutra. Failing which, I recommend that you ask Professor Google about the "history of asian homosexuality".
Find the FACTS before you shoot your mouth off.

LKM:  Okokok, but it's still keep 377A for me !!!

KKP: Oh SHUT UP ALREADY!
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WD:  On the other hand, I am glad that LKM shot his mouth off. Because only then, we have a chance to feed him with FACTS that would challenge his (IMHO mis-)perception about homosexuality, homosexual rape, and history of asian homosexuality.
Whether he changes his opinion is well within his right to decide. Freedom of belief, so long as he does not discriminate against any of his students on the basis of their sexual orientation.
LKM:  I am capable of loving even homosexuals, it's the sexual act that I have problems with, which is EXACTLY what 377A is all about.

WD:  Do you eat sharks' fin soup? Some people find it disgusting, "repulsive", and against "proper order of nature", and so they are petitioning for it to be banned.
If every activity that someone or anyone in this world finds disgusting, "repulsive", or against "proper order of nature" gets banned, I think we may well end up everything also cannot do. Learn to live and let live. Remember the adage: One man's meat is another man's poison.
Like · 1
WD:  @ LKM: Thanks for the "Like" for my previous comment, but I suggest that you think about it before you "Like". Why do you insist on banning (i.e. by supporting 377A) private homosexual acts between 2 consenting adults in the privacy of their bedrooms if you truly agree to "live and let live"?

LKM:  377A affects the future of my children, I'm generally selfish about well being of my children and their children. Shark fin has less impact on my kids, hence my ability to better accommodate live and let live ...

WD:  Quote LKM: > "377A affects the future of my children, I'm generally selfish about well being of my children and their children."
Care to explain how/why 377A affects the future of your children? I presume you mean removing 377A affects their "well being" negatively, so I would appreciate if you would elaborate on how this may be so. 
Or is the above another of those "I will state my OPINION as a FACT, and then hope that I don't get outed for not distinguishing between FACTS and OPINIONS" statements from you?
JT: Allow me to defend LKM here. Everyone is entitled to his own opinion/beliefs/values n he's just simply stating tt on his FB wall. If do not agree, can always state own views on own wall. Y the need for all these aggressive comments? This is an issue that even if argue till cow comes home there also will be no end to it...

WD:  @ JT: I am afraid you're the one who is confused between a FB wall and the wall of a person's home.
May I remind everyone of Facebook's Terms of Use.
https://www.facebook.com/legal/terms 
In particular, points 6 and 7 under Safety.
6. You will not bully, intimidate, or harass any user.
7. You will not post content that: is hate speech, threatening, or pornographic; incites violence; or contains nudity or graphic or gratuitous violence. 
Homophobic statements, like what LKM posted above, e.g. "If homosexual intercourse is legally permissible, I fear for our Army !!!!" is a form of hate speech.
And to use social media to share his homophobic views (which LKM admitted are not fact-based but "my [his] opinion purely mine [his]") can be a form of cyber-bullying.
WD:  If you don't know what "hate speech" is, here's a definition from wikipedia:
Hate speech is, outside the law, communication that vilifies a person or a group on the basis of one or more characteristics. Examples include but are not limited to: color, disability, ethnicity, gender, nationality, race, religion, and sexual orientation.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hate_speech

WD:  Please note that I am not a thought police. I have no interest in censoring LKM's resounding support for 377A. [Note: I did not comment on his other FB post drumming support for 377A.] (sic)
However, when LKM posted homophobic declarations, passing his OPINIONS off as FACTS (until otherwise challenged), and posting MISINFORMATION that constitutes hate speech, then I'm afraid he has crossed the line (as per Facebook's Terms of Use).
WD:  Let me borrow from the story of "The Emperor's new clothes" by Hans Christian Andersen.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Emperor's_New_Clothes
Which kind of friend are you? Which kind of friend would you rather have?
(a) the ministers: who let the emperor exhibit his folly for the world to see; who cannot see the clothing themselves, but pretend that they can for fear of appearing unfit for their positions; or
(b) the child: who calls a spade a spade, and blurts out the fact that the Emperor is wearing nothing at all.
One's critic is not necessary one's foe, and conversely one's supporter is not necessary one's friend. LKM, as a parent, should be well aware of which kind of friend he would prefer for himself and/or his children.
WD:  In the same way that LKM recognizes that it is only the homosexual sex acts "that I [he] find it repulsive", that he is "capable of loving even homosexuals"; it is only LKM's posting of bigotry statements on social media that I find repulsive, and I recognize that he has other positive attributes which he expresses, even on the same FB social media account.
When a person posts controversial statements on his/her FB wall, he/she should be well aware that it is not the same as painting those controversial statements on one's own home walls. The "social" nature of FB means that the person posting those statements jolly well be prepared to defend his/her stance and/or face complaints about his/her posting.
Now, as I have said earlier, I recognize there is positive value in some of LKM's other inspirational FB postings. As such, I do not believe nor wish for him to lose his entire FB account over his temporary lapse in judgement by posting hate speech on his FB wall. That said, his homophobic remarks can be a form of cyber-bullying. When good men/women remain silent in witnessing bullying, they are implicitly condoning the act of bullying and empowering the bully to continue his/her wayward behaviour.
I hope that I have made my stance clear.
LKM:  Now I feel so guilty having to know that I have contravened the use of FB's design intent .... but I still wish to use the last post I am capable of making in support of Penal Code 377A DON'T REPEAL IT !!!!

WD:  > "last post I am capable of making"
Aiyoh, no need to be so drama king lah. I am not a thought police nor a backstabber. I warned you so that you can cease and desist from making further hate speech. Of course, if you fail to do so, I reserve the right to lodge a complaint with Facebook.
So, go ahead and drum all the support you want to create for 377A. Just do it by sticking to the facts. 
Do not post PREJUDICIAL OPINIONS that could be construed as HATE SPEECH, otherwise you'd have contravened Facebook's Terms of Usage. If you care for your friends who share your support of 377A, you may want to explain to them about the fine line between supporting 377A and sprouting hate speech. Just my 2 cents.
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[On another of LKM's (slightly earlier) Facebook posting, indicating his intent to promote his pro-377A stance.]

LKM: I make NO APOLOGIES to my friends. If you're offended by my PRO-Penal Code 377A stand, please simply remove me from your FaceBook friends list :)
Being a father of 5 children through natural birth, I cannot visualize same sex marriage as anything near legitimate relationship, and moreso, cannot understand any sane human would ever want to champion such a SICK course ?!!!
Like · 39
[Snipped off - 3 other comments supporting and adding to LKM's stance]

WD:  It is not about offence but contravention of FB's Terms of Usage, which you violated through posting "hate speech" in your other FB post which I have challenged. For details, please see my comments on your other FB post.
[Edit: Note that url to LKM's other FB post "If homosexual intercourse is legally permissible, I fear for our Army !!!!" (see above) is removed from display on this blog for privacy reasons.]
As a friend, it is my duty to tell you when you've crossed the line, so that you will not lose your ENTIRE FB ACCOUNT on the basis of a momentary lapse of judgement in your postings. 
As your friend, I make NO APOLOGIES for doing the right thing in pointing out when you've overstepped the line. Unless of course, you'd prefer that I report you to FB directly, behind your back?
LKM: ... and even at the risk of loosing my entire FB account, I wish to do so championing the keeping of Penal Code 377A for Singapore ...
Like · 2

WD:  @ LKM: As I mentioned in your other post, I am not a thought police. You can champion for support to keep Penal Code 377A for Singapore. Just do it by sticking to the facts.
Do not post PREJUDICIAL OPINIONS that could be construed as HATE SPEECH, otherwise you'd have contravened Facebook's Terms of Usage. If you care for your friends who share your support of 377A, you may want to explain to them about the fine line between supporting 377A and sprouting hate speech. Just my 2 cents.
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Has my challenge/feedback to LKM worked? Well, it depends on what you mean by "worked". For now, LKM has stopped passing-off his homophobic opinions as facts. He is still drumming support for 377A, but he is now quoting online sources such as wikipedia's entry on Singapore's 377A.

Actually, LKM is rather similar to another 2 pro-PAP Singaporean guys that I know. [Click here and here for more.] All 3 are born-and-bred Singapore citizens. All 3 are born-again Christians. All 3 graduated from polytechnic around late-1980's or early-1990's. All 3 went on to professional/executive careers, thanking their god for their career success. All 3 are homophobic.

Now, I know that a lot of online bloggers and commenters (presumably male Singaporeans) like to put the blame of PAP's majority votes on those "ignorant Singaporean women who do not go through NS". Perhaps, just perhaps, these online bloggers/commenters would do well go knocking on some Christian doors. After all, for those conservative right-wing Christian households, their church would often teach that the wife and children must obey the husband (who represents Christ as the head of the household); and thus, if you manage to convince these homophobic Christian men to vote for alternative parties, you may actually win over 2 or more votes per man swayed.

p.s. Please do not ostracize our fellow Singaporean, right-wing Christian, PAP supporters. Some of them are really nice people when you know them personally (e.g. my friends LKM and X). IMHO, "engage and educate" is the best approach to win them over. After all, each individual is a complex multi-faceted combination of qualities, not just a cardboard cut-out of their religious and/or political affiliations.

"Suddenly, Last Winter"
Listen to what Luka said at 1:40 to 2:15 (replace "pope/bishop" with "pastor", replace "Italians" with "Singaporeans"... does it ring a bell?)

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

In reply to TOC - Why many don't leave and some want to return

The following is my response to The Online Citizen article dated 15-Jan-2013, "Why many don't leave and some want to return" by Kungie.

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Precisely my thoughts too. Below is my point-by-point "2 cents". Note: ">" precedes Kungie's words as extracted from the TOC article cited above.

> it is precisely all these taboos and conventions that bring about one of the greatest benefit of living in Singapore

What benefit is the closed conservative mindset of Singaporeans (and its social policies) if one is a liberal who do not fit/agree with those silly meaningless taboos and conventions? [Click here, herehere, here, here and here for examples]

> Even if your real self embodies none of the above-mentioned values, this framework of taboo and rules at least give you a very clear idea about how to bend the facts (and people's opinion about you).

So Kungie would rather have fake friends who see one through "shape-shifting mirrors of framework of taboos and rules", than real, mutually-trusting friendships based on open-communication and mutual acceptance. I am so sorry for Kungie's network of "friends".

> So many strongly enforced Singaporean beliefs seem to embody values that people wise up to after first trying out a life of chaos and misdirection... Our social policies, while sometimes draconian and elitist, are uncannily thought out and always hold firm like the grip of a strict father, never flickering back and forth due to public opinion like how sometimes Dutch social policies do.

Singaporean beliefs that people "wise up to"? Like what? Singaporeans' materialism? Speaking as a nurse who had served elderly patients -- my observation is that materialism does not buy one peace in facing mortality. IMHO, the sooner Singaporeans wise up to the false promises of Materialism, the better.

Social policies flickering back and forth in Kungie's view is a weakness, but in my view is the flexibility to be responsive to the ever-changing balance of societal demands. I would choose flexible/responsive public/social policies over draconian and elitist ones anytime.

> You always feel that someone has got your back in Singapore. 

While in Singapore, I have experience back-stabbing from some (born-and-bred) Singaporeans at school and at work; and in contrast, support from some foreign colleagues. It boils down to interpersonal interactions, nationality has nothing to do with it. Just look at my blog post below, under the section of "ugly Singaporean bosses". 
http://winkingdoll.blogspot.ca/2010/01/wind-and-clouds.html

> Those of us who moved to foreign countries, especially Western ones, would often feel that they are being let down by their foreign friends. ... your companions may not believe that making you feel included is also their responsibility.

"Those of us who moved to foreign countries, especially Western ones" -- so Kungie claims to be speaking on behalf of ALL Singaporeans who have moved to foreign, especially Western, countries. Errmm, can Kungie please count me out? 

As far as my experience go (and I have been in B.C., Canada for 2+ years -- a "Western" country), I have Canadian colleagues and even strangers who stood up for me when I encountered abuse/discrimination. [Note: There are idiots all over the world, and I assure you my encounters with idiots are rare here in B.C. compared to my previous work experience in Singapore.] Both Singaporean and non-Singaporean friends who extend an open invitation to crash at their home any day, anytime, especially if I miss the last train home due to working graveyard shifts. Both Canadian and immigrant friends who are always on a look-out for good deals for me (better rental, fun activities at budget prices, good food at value-for-money prices, job opportunities, etc) and make the effort to be socially inclusive. Fellow schoolmates who adopted me as part of their ethnic social group (even though I do not speak their ethnic language). As LIFT puts it, it is a give-and-take, It boils down to how much effort did you put in to reach out to and support your "foreign" friends.

> Only in Singapore can races and cultures somehow interweave and cross-pollinate without chaotic detonation

Has Kungie visited other highly diverse cities such as London and Vancouver? Does Kungie even hang out with non-Singaporeans in whatever Netherlands town/city he/she is in? I have friends (both Dutch and non-Dutch) in Netherlands, and they certainly are not as ethnocentric, mean-spirited and/or closed-minded Kungie makes them out to be. 

Kungie, Please be fair. If your experience sucks, please state clearly that you're sharing based on YOUR experience and those of other miserable Singaporeans who are unable/unwilling to integrate with the locals. 不要一竹干打翻一船人。 ["Do not tarnish everyone with a single brushstroke."] There are many other (ex-)Singaporeans who left the little red dot and are happily socially-integrated into their new homeland (including "Western" countries); some of whom blog about their experience. [Click here, here and here for examples.]

It sounds to me like Kungie is having difficulty fitting into Netherlands (his/her current country of residence); and is now looking at all "Western" countries with his/her jaded eyes, while looking back at Singapore through rose-tinted glasses.

In fact, Kungie's laments sound very similar to the lamentations of some PRCs whom I met in B.C., Canada. Those who arrive in Canada:
I am sorry for Kungie, his/her fellow Singaporean whiners, and the PRCs who share his/her attitude. IMHO, these folks aren't cut out for emigration, and are indeed better off returning to their respective country of origin.